Brooklyn-based queer indie-pop artist ben silby returns with their captivating new single, “my bad,” a lively and introspective track that perfectly captures their signature blend of raw emotion, playful camp, and rebellious charm. Known for crafting songs that explore the tension between candy-coated pop and existential musings, silby once again delivers a catchy and relatable anthem.

Originally penned in 2018, “my bad” was inspired by a relationship that dragged on due to a strong physical connection despite deeper emotional conflicts. Over time, the song evolved as silby continued to perform it live, eventually transforming into the rock-infused indie-pop track we hear today. With its candid lyrics and energetic sound, “my bad” captures the complexities of love, lust, and self-awareness in a way that feels both deeply personal and universally relatable.

The song’s instrumentation is a standout feature, blending analog synths, guitars, bass, and drums to create a warm, authentic sound that feels refreshing in the modern digital music landscape. The raw rock undertone gives the track an edge, contrasting with its catchy pop hooks and adding depth to the playful energy that drives the song.

At its core, “my bad” is about reckoning with the difficult truths of a relationship—when lust overshadows love, and the humor that often accompanies moments of clarity. As ben silby explains, “It’s about facing the hard truth of a relationship when it’s been staring you in the face… It’s about sex vs. love, owning our mistakes, and finding humor in situations that seem dire.”